Reconnecting with Old Friends
Rose Thun
Life can pull us in so many directions, and sometimes we lose touch with friends we truly cherish. But here’s a gentle reminder, especially for the introverts out there: no one is holding the time against you. If you haven’t spoken in a while, it doesn’t mean anyone dislikes you. More often than not, reconnecting will be met with delight and warmth.
Here are a few low-key ways to rekindle those connections:
Send a Simple Message: A text that says “Hey, I was just thinking about you and wanted to say hi!” can mean a lot. Sometimes, just letting someone know they crossed your mind opens up the space for a meaningful catch-up.
Plan a Casual Coffee or Walk: If both of you have the time, a casual meetup like coffee or a quick walk can be a great way to ease back into connection without the pressure of a big event.
Share a Memory: Reminisce about a shared experience or an inside joke. A message like, “Remember when we…” can bring back all the good memories and remind you both of the bond you share.
Reconnecting doesn’t have to feel like an obligation or an event. It’s simply opening the door to bring a little more warmth and familiarity back into each other’s lives.